44 things girls wish guys knew..
1. Don`t tell us when you think other girls are hot.
2. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, don`t expect us to dress like Victoria Secret Models.
4. Mark anniversaries on the calendar.
5. We think about you all the time
6 This is how we see it : Don't call = Don't care.
7. Which also means that if we don`t call, take a hint.
8. We like you to be a little jealous. But overly possesive is not necessary.
9. Being able to make us laugh is so much more important than knowing how much you can bench-press.
10. We're allowed to be late. You're not.
11. Eye contact is the key.
12. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
13. Laugh at our jokes.
14. 3 words: honesty, honesty, honesty!
15. Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers.
16. Do not start with us. You will not win.
17. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? Didn't think so.
18 If you ask nicely, we`ll answer the same way.
19. We will never have enough clothes or shoes.
20. We have an exscuse for being bitchy at least once a month.
21 Open the door for us no matter where we are.
22. We love surprises.
23. We like to be kissed softly. Not with an iron tongue.
24. Pay attention to the little things we do, because they mean the most.
25. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs sometimes. Never tighty-whities!
26. Always brush your teeth before you see us. A fresh mouth and white teeth are a necessity.
27. Clean your room before we come over.
28. Even though you're sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
29. Don't act hard around your friends
30. Sometimes "NO" really means "NO!".
31. "Wife beaters" are not an adequite form of fasion.
32. If we wanted to be on video tape, we`d be a porn star. NOT your girlfriend.
33. Sensitive guys are great.. but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.
34. Don`t let ex-girlfriends cause drama, relationships are stressful enough.
35. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman.
37. "Fat chicks" have feelings, too.
38. Silent treatment, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling, & nasty looks add up to = YOU DiD SOMETHiNG WRONG.
39. The exscuse "I can't dance" is unacceptable. We`ll appreciate the simple fact that you`re trying.
40. Just because a girl doesn`t pick up on the first ring, doesn`t mean she`s not waiting by the phone.
41. You don`t have to spend alot; if it means alot.
42. Don`t say you love me if you don`t mean it.
43. Don`t lie to us. We will catch you.
44. When the girls get together, we talk about everything. meaning, my bestfriends know everything about you.
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that very samsung phone You were online and listening to a song. U never listen to songs while on msn bcz ur alwis at a cafe. You messaged me the day after. U said hi. I said hi. Following that were the usual how are yous, wat u doing,hows everything. My font was in pink as usual. Your font was in blue, oddly. Your font is alwis black bcz ur at a cafe. You were talking to me the day after. How come? Why? I thought you said no. It was a dream. That's how bad it was, that night itself.
I turned off the American samsung phone which I commplained oh-so-much about all the time. It actually holds a digi sim card that brings pleasant memoirs of the past summer. I turned it off and dumped it in a drawer. Night fell, and I realized, I needed 2 alarms to wake up at 9am for class. Nokia and Samsung. I took it out again, setting the alarm. Morning rose, my phone vibrated. I was estatic. My fon vibrated. That could only mean one thing. An sms came through. No one else smses my Malaysian number. Groggily, I flipped open the fon, it was the alarm.
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My estaticness broke into sleep. Strangely, the alarm was set the night before to the loudest tone. Why was there only vibration? Once again, that's how badly I think about it. Throughout the day after work, after class, I switched on my fon periodically to check if anything was supposed to come through. Nope, nada, zilch.
36 hours....not that bad...another 2 more months to go...When that time comes, u'll be so vague in my mind. Did summer '06 happened? or was it a mere dream that I was in Malaysia?I cant remember the outline shadows of your face. The smoothness of ur skin. The rought cut jaw. The big eyes. The lips that make mine tremble for the past 2 years. It's so blur. It's hazy. Did 2005/2006 even happened in the first place? Or is it a dream within a dream?
We dont do things to regret. We do things to pleasure ourselves for the moment. That was what this is all about. So no regrets.
but who knows? in a yr's time plus 3 months, we might still be sitting in the same cafe that we've alwis been to. Shall We Meet? If I dont see you, I will not leave. SS2. Someone alwis said I had no life bcz I alwis go there. The drinks arent fantastic. The prices arent dirt cheap. The songs are not too bad. The atmosphere is mediocre. The chix and dudes that pass by are of grades that you got when u were in Form 4 doing Physics. So what's up with Shall We Meet? I dont know. It's the aura. It's the warm, yet melancholy feeling when I pass by that cafe. One fine day, we shall.....
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"think about the consequences.. it cld be the last straw for him.. so when you flirt with other guys, its not a fun time u are gaining, its a bf that u potentially lose"
-Quote of the Day- I can't imagine what his reaction would be like if he read my history with chui wa...i can see the hurt and disappointment through his smses alr, as it is...but i dont think i can handle any more if i knew beyond that.... i shld stop all this nonsense. i can only imagine what it wld be like if it was the other way round, and how hurt i would be...and to imagine all the hurtful stuff he has to take now...if he knew... I made a decision, i made a commitment, and i will stick with it bcz i know i still dowan to lose him and he is still the one i dream about....and still the one i love....
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msn farker Ok, i have a good mind to bitch about this right now. you cheebye kia!! i cant rmb double u tee eff is ur name, but u ruined my baby toshiba. I know ur on my contact list, and i wanna get some gay whore to fuck u upside down and burn ur ass!
first off, u send me some random link, that ive never seen before, and the fact that ur on my contact list means i trust u. ok, maybe im dumb. dumb enuff to trust u. sending me some random link. so i click on it. and this effin virus misplaces all my drivers. They put some in the C drive, some in Program Files, some on the desktop.
So i close all my windows and i see some random file on my desktop. Commonsensically, anyone wld think that its a virus file la rite? with a name like NTLDR...wtf?so i delete it...the next thing i knew...
WHAMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cannot restart my comp...cannot on at all...it says at the beginning, NTLDR driver missing..
u smelly chibai kia crab! ur ass is going down!!
To add salt and oyster sauce to that, I cant back up my files because for hell's sake, i cant even turn on my computer. So I ll lose all my pics of me in bra and panties...all my camwhore pics...ill lose all my porn. ok, now u mindless bastard go get urself a life and i hope u get mindfucked by a gay whore!
I hate you...
my poor toshiba baby...ill lose all the sweet memories with u...awww.......dont worry, we'll generate new ones ok? now u msn bitch, fark off....
Now, my toshiba baby is at the Wired Office...been in there for 2 nites alr...we'll make it thru.....
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Money U know how i used to say money isnt important when looking for a boyfren? I alwis say that its not like i need them to pay for my dinner, shopping, expensive gifts, etc....u think i no money ar? u think my parents cannot afford to pay ar? thats why i dont like guys paying for me when i was single..and buying stuff for me...but all that has gone out the window eversince i came to US...money is important...very important..
And now its like, if u dont have money, ur not anywhere near my list..i dont mean to be outright materialistic or wat...but u need to have either money or time...u dont have both, its hard...really hard...
I kinda feel like im being insensitive and bitchy, I know that when i was single, if i needed to talk to a fren like me, i would have been totally outrageous that why this stupid bitch cannot understand the fact that her boyfren needs to work and the fact he is sacrificing sleep time shld be more than enuff...but rite now, when im in that "fren's" place, i understand..its not just bout wanting to be understanding..u gotta be in the situation to actually do it...
bottom line: u need to have money. no money, no talk. No talk, no story. No story, no love.
I know ppl alwis say u shld never leave a guy thinking that "you treat me like that, got other better guys waiting in line for me. You duno how to appreciate what u have." But the truth is, when u leave him, u also do not know how to appreciate what u have, or rather had. When u leave a guy thinking that "u have no money, the guys in US here all are richer than u. At least, i know i can have a secure future with them." The truth is that the values he has in him cannot surpass the monetary value these rich bastards have. Just bcz a person does not love u the way u want him to, it does not mean that he doesnt love you.
It's easy to say all these things when ur advicing a fren. But when ur in it, u feel the pressure to leave bcz u know the truth. The truth is there really are guys who can be there with u, instead of being 9999999999999999 miles away fromm u. U know there are guys who can secure ur future, instead of hanging by the moment to see what happens next..But then again, u also know that if u leave him now, by Murphy's Law, he will freaking make it in life...just bcz u dont stick thru the sucky parts, u wont get the awesome parts...but also by Murphy's Law, if u dont leave him now, he next 3 yrs u will be complaining why u were so stupid as to not go for that rich Indonesian bastard whose parents had 10 20-acre homes in Indonesia...while u are leaving in a half-bedroom apartment..and, not to mention, still owing AmBank RM70, 000 for your 0.5 bedroom apartment...
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that tent thingy is what u call a teepee...
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Indian rock band concert...
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sara and i outside the animal skin hut display
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some rock band playing...
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not kidding!
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fod goodness sake, its real!
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me, jannah, jap gal...
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children dressed up in native indian costumes..
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good stuff..known as...
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good stuff...known as...
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I took a better picture for my her...
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Jewelry on display..
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Jannah obviously does not know how to take pictures...sigh..
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Just arriving ....Luqman...
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Somebody's last name is Bodoh..haha..Dave Bodoh..interesting..
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Jazz in the Park Now i recall saying that I went to Jazz in the Park but never got around to posting the pics...got this Korean guy, Hee Sup *i know, his name is funny rite?* never got around to sending me his pictures..but here are my share...Basically, its just gathering around in the park listening to jazz music...that's really what it is. Ppl bring fleece blankets or picnic chairs and tables and also picnic baskets and food to share..then just sit aorund hanging out, spending time while listening to jazz music..so western type of thing rite? If we do it in msia, it'll prolly be sth like the Starlight Nokia Cinema thing which died out after a few yrs of hype..cz the planners of that event just realize that m'sia is a tropical country, and it rains 24/7...and the ground is alwis wet...msia got mosquitoes evrywhere....the msian crowd is dirty..they dont pick up their own rubbish, unlike the Americans...so they decided to scrap the whole Starlight Cinema thing...Great Idea!
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matt, sam, shawn.(cute, rite?)
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luq, me, random gal 1 & 2, hee sup...
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laughing at some stupid thing ....
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now, the home crowd joins in...
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oh gosh...sth is wrong with our eyes...
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the g(r)ay brothers..
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footsie...sexay!
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wah! nice picture of us..with the background lights...
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hee sup being lame..
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sum random pic my hsemate was taking...trying out her camera with flash...
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without flash...
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hee sup, me, homie...
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hee sup, me, tiro, jannah...i love this pic.. : )
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luqman, me, random gal, hee sup, random gal 2
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luqi - man - man ex-president of msian society..
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tiro and i..pic gone bad!
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2 random gals i just met there, me, jannah (my hsemate!!)
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scene of what its like..
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the horn on my head does tell u sth...
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whoa! unexpected pic...msian picnic gone bad..bcz of weather...matt, kok yee, jannah, sara, me, ian, sam, and of cz the one sitting on the floor is Shawn. : )
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backlog work.... Hmm, i realise i never blog about alot of stuff already.
1. My Six Flags trip but the pics are in my friendster.
2. About Jazz in the Park..the pics are not posted at all.
3. I got tagged by chui wato do something..and never got around to doing it at all..sory babe..
4. about how im being so jealous that my fren is honeymooning in US..
5. about how im being jealous of what others have and i dont.
6. about going to Rochambo and not camwhoring with 3 guys..
7. having a sucky weekend spent studying.
8. getting a 79 for my Logic exam cz im an illogical person
9. how im looking for a hot boyfren but just cant seem to find any.
10.how i need to get a boyfren. um, did i say that alr?
ok, so lets start one by one...
SIX FLAGS TRIP
I went there on 4th Sept. It is near Gurney Mills. Somewhere between Chicago and Milwaukee. Weather was beautiful that day. I have a phobia for roller coasters. Like HUGE ones. and everyone laughed at me cz i dont dare to sit the scariest roller coaster ride in the park. how sad. Ppl laughed at me and poked fun at me. haha. so middle school like lah..but i had great fun there..It was subsidized by Marquette University. so we pay US20 only. Ori price is like US50ish...hmm, pics above basically told the story alr lah...so....yup i had fun and get to meet the new students..so ya kewl...oh ! i forgot one very important fact. Americans are so dumbfuckingly loud, i just cant stand it. I feel like shooting them down in the bus. Now i know why school shootings occur. On the way there, they were so hyped up, they cldnt stop talking and screaming. and American's idea of talknig is Asian's way of shouting. I cant even talk to my neighbor without raisin my voice. And I had to share a 2 seater with 3 ppl. And 2 were guys. PPffTTTT!
